The Best Gifts For The 45 Year Old Woman of 2020


An amazing line-up of giftable options for the 45-year-old lady in your life! You can give her the gift she always remembers and loves the most! The options below range from inexpensive and emotional to having the big WOW factor! What are you going for? Competing with a sibling or are you a significant other that feels like you always get the wrong gift? Many amazing gifts on this list. Go for it and have fun finding the perfect gift for her 45th birthday!

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The Best Gift For The Amazing 45 Year Old Woman of 2020

Romance Reveal Book Box

Romance Reveal Book Box- The #1 Subscription Box for Romance Readers

When you love to read and cannot always make it to the store to buy a book or you are not a fan of electronic books you can gift an amazing read to your 45-year-old with the The #1 Subscription Box for Romance Readers. Your mom will love her books coming right to her door every month!

Pure Country Weavers Personalized Photo Blanket Throw

Pure Country Weavers Personalized Photo Blanket Throw Woven from Cotton - Made in The USA (72x54)

Us mama’s love our children and we really love photo blankets to snuggle with. Our children grow to big and no longer want to snuggle with us. If you want to touch the emotional cord of your 45-year-old mom or grandma then the Personalized Photo Blanket will be a gift she can wrap around herself.

iRobot Roomba 675 Robot Vacuum

iRobot Roomba 675 Robot Vacuum-Wi-Fi Connectivity, Works with Alexa, Good for Pet Hair, Carpets, Hard Floors, Self-Charging

I am not leaving the best for last in this article. I cannot tell you how much I loved my iRobot Roomba 675 Robot Vacuum, when my sons gifted it to me on a birthday. At first, I was like, “Really, a vacuum?” but I love it. It is a time saver and I use it daily to get the basic floor cleaning completed. Saves me so much time and does a great job.

Fitbit Charge 4 Fitness and Activity Tracker

Fitbit Charge 4 Fitness and Activity Tracker with Built-in GPS, Heart Rate, Sleep & Swim Tracking, Black/Black, One Size (S &L Bands Included)

I really like that you can now use the GPS tracker for when your out and about in a new area and it allows you to see where you have been, pretty cool. The Fitbit Charge 4 is a fitness and activity tracker which tracks your heart rate, sleep & has swim tracking; which I really like. The 45-year-old woman will love this as a birthday gift!

Aurorae Synergy 2-in-1 Yoga Mat

Aurorae Synergy 2 in 1 Yoga Mat; with Integrated Non Slip Microfiber Towel. Best for Hot, Ashtanga, Bikram and Active Yoga Where You Sweat and Slip; Stops Slipping and Bunching; Patent Protected

Everyone in my yoga class has now purchased this “impressive” mat. Unlike other mats that leave you feeling a tad sticky and sometimes sliding after you break into a good sweat this one feels like it keeps the moisture away. My yoga teacher is amazed by the absorption of this mat. This bad boy features the non-slip microfiber towel that’s bonded to the surface—yes, already built into the design, no need for that sweaty yoga towel. An amazing gift for the lady that loves yoga! Give her the Aurorae Synergy 2 in 1 Yoga Mat for her 45th!

Madewell Leather Transport Tote

Leather Canvas Tote,Vaschy Vintage Soft Cotton Canvas Large Shopper Work Tote for Women

For the lady who loves her bags you have to gift your 45-year-old mom or grandma this amazing gift of the Leather Canvas Tote. Your loved one will enjoy her birthday gift!

Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug

NEW Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug 2, 10 oz, Black, 1.5-hr Battery Life - App Controlled Heated Coffee Mug - Improved Design

I love my coffee, hot. Not warm, hot. So I love this. The Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug can be controlled with your phone app and set to the perfect temperature. An amzing gift for the 45th birthday and for the lover of coffee or hot tea.

45th Birthday Cup

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When your 45 and fabulous! A fun gift for the woman who has everything but loves her coffee or wine! A great little mug for traveling or taking to the office. The 45 and Fabulous mug is a fun gift for your lady.

InnoGear Essential Oil Diffuser

InnoGear Essential Oil Diffuser, Upgraded Diffusers for Essential Oils Aromatherapy Diffuser Cool Mist Humidifier with 7 Colors Lights 2 Mist Mode Waterless Auto off for Home Office Room, Basic White

Is your 45-year-old loved one obsessed with essential oil diffusers. And why wouldn’t she be? They infuse your home with amazing smells and feel good vibes. When shopping for a stressed out mom or grandma you can bring peace and happiness into your their life with InnoGear Essential Oil Diffuser.

Herbivore Botanicals Coco Rose Luxe Hydration Trio

Herbivore - Natural Coco Rose Luxe Hydration Trio | Truly Natural, Clean Beauty

Busy ladies deserve some true relaxation so give her the gift of Natural Coco Rose Hydration a natural way to be beautiful. For the amazing lady turning 45.

Running Belt for Phone

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Exercising is a key element to staying healthy and fit and when we go running we need our phones with us and other items. This Running Belt is a great way to take your phone without it flopping and dropping! It holds a few other accessories, like some money for that quick stop for water. A solid gift idea for the 45-year-old this year on her birthday.

45 Years Old Birthday Coffee Mug

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COVID is enough to make anyone want more coffee or even something stronger. The Quarantined mug will be a little reason to smile as you drink your coffee. Our world is backward and everyone needs a reason to be uplifted.

Wyze Cam Wireless Smart Home Camera with Night Vision

Wyze Cam 1080p HD Indoor Wireless Smart Home Camera with Night Vision, 2-Way Audio, Works with Alexa & the Google Assistant, One Pack, White - WYZEC2

Seeing inside your homes can be useful. When you have your pets spending hours at home alone or a new sitter for the children, you can check in on them when needed. The Wyze Cam is a amazing gift for the 45-year-old who likes to make sure everyone is safe. The Wyze Cam is also a 2-Way Audio and works with Alexa & the Google Assistant. An excellent gift choice.

Makeup Mirror with LED Lights

AirExpect Makeup Mirror Vanity Mirror with Lights - 3 Color Lighting Modes 72 LED Trifold Mirror, Touch Control Design, 1x/2x/3x Magnification, Portable High Definition Cosmetic Lighted Up Mirror

I love my make-up mirror. The lighting helps me see better so I can pluck the hair from my face. Who knew hair grew there! A perfect gift for the 45-year-old that is inexpensive but such a perfect gift for your wife, mom, or sister on her birthday. Mom will love the Makeup Mirror on her 45th birthday.

Instant Pot Duo Plus Mini 9-in-1

Instant Pot Duo Plus Mini 9-in-1 Electric Pressure Cooker, Sterilizer, Slow Cooker, Rice Cooker, Steamer, Sauté, Yogurt Maker, and Warmer, 3 Quart, 13 One-Touch Programs

I love my Electric Pressure Cooker, you can sterilizer, slow cook, steam, sauté, make yogurt, and warm up food. An amazing gift for the woman turning 45 in 2020 and the woman who has everything or is hard to buy for. The Instant Pot is a great tool for the busy lady always on the move.

PortoVino Beach Wine Purse

PortoVino Beach Wine Purse (Turquoise/White) - Beach Tote with Hidden, Insulated Compartment, Holds 2 Bottles of Wine! / Great Gift! / Happiness Guaranteed!

Heading to the beach right now with this awesome birthday gift! How fun is the PortoVino Beach Wine Purse to gift to the 45-year-old that has everything. She can stash her favorite bordello at the bottom and sit in her chair and relax.

Apple AirPods with Charging Case

Apple AirPods with Charging Case (Wired)

If you have an Apple phone you gotta have The Apple AirPods with Charging Case (Wired). They are amazing with great sound and comfort. Your 45-year-old mom, wife, or sister will love to use them when she running or out in the yard. A great birthday or Christmas gift.

OSTRICHPILLOW GO Travel Pillow

OSTRICHPILLOW GO Travel Pillow for Car & Airplane Neck Support with Travel Bag - Memory Foam Travel Accessories for Power Nap on Flight

If your 45-year-old woman is a traveler for work or leisure the OSTRICHPILLOW  is amazing for comfort on the plane or just relaxing in your favorite chair. It is so comfortable and helps with neck pain.

COSORI Premium Food Dehydrator

COSORI Premium Food Dehydrator Machine(50 Free Recipes), 6 Stainless Steel Trays with Digital Timer and Temperature Control for Beef,Jerky,Fruit,Dog Treats,Herbs,ETL Listed/FDA Compliant

I love my food dehydrator. I use it every year for fruits and vegetables and making beef jerky. A great gift for the 45-year-old woman on her birthday if she gardens, hunts and loves to eat healthy. The COSORI Premium Food Dehydrator  is the right birthday gift for her. It is super easy to use and makes great snacks. My grand-kids love the apples I dry for them.

 Jetjoy Exercise Outfits

bbmee Jetjoy Exercise Outfits for Women 2 Pieces Ribbed Seamless Yoga Outfits Sports Bra and Leggings Set Tracksuits 2 Piece Lightblue

If your 45-year-old mother, sister, or Aunt loves Yoga then these are the bomb! The Yoga Sports Bra and Leggings Set are comfortable and super cute for that fit and trim chick!

Favorland Camping Hammock

Favorland Camping Hammock Double & Single with Tree Straps for Hiking, Backpacking, Beach, Yard - 2 Persons Outdoor Indoor Lightweight & Portable with Straps & Steel Carabiners Nylon(Green)

I love camping and I really love the Favorland Camping Hammock for chilling under a tree. It is a great way to relax on your 45th birthday with a glass of wine or a cold beer. Your mom will love this gift. Relaxing at its best.

Clever Fox Planner PRO

Clever Fox Planner PRO - Weekly & Monthly Life Planner to Increase Productivity, Time Management and Hit Your Goals - Organizer, Gratitude Journal - Undated - 8.5 x 11

A good planner is something every woman needs when she is busy and on the go. If your 45-year-old co-worker, mother or friend is having a birthday then the Clever Fox Planner PRO  will do the job of the perfect gift for that busy lady in your life.

HAUS LABORATORIES by Lady Gaga

HAUS LABORATORIES by Lady Gaga: LIQUID EYE-LIE-NER, Black

Eyeliner is essential. The HAUS LABORATORIES by Lady Gaga is a new, fun liquid eye-liner your 45-year-old lady will love as a gift. You can add it to a basket of cool items she uses daily.

Uber Appliance Silver Mini Fridge

Uber Appliance UB-XL1-SILVER Mini Fridge, 9L

When the 45-year-old lady in your life has everything and it feels impossible to buy her a gift; then the Uber Appliance UB-XL1-SILVER Mini Fridge is an amazing gift for the office, the camper or out on the deck. It is super cool looking and a great spot for a few refreshments! I love this thing.

Yoobao Portable Charger

Yoobao Portable Charger 12000mAh Ultra Slim Power Bank Q12 Qualcomm Quick Charge 3.0 External Battery Pack Fast Charge Powerbank Compatible Samsung S8/S8+ iPhone X/8/8+ Huawei Google LG and More-Pink

I love my portable charger! As someone who works in an office and from home I am constantly using the access I have to documents, pictures, or papers from my Yoobao Portable Charger. The charger is super cute and easy to transport due to the great size.  A must-have and a great gift for her birthday.

EyeVac PRO Touchless Stationary Vacuum

EyeVac PRO Touchless Stationary Vacuum - 1400 Watts Professional Vacuum with Active Infrared Sensors, High Efficiency Filtration, Bag-Less Canister (Tuxedo Black)

Normally you see these amazing vacuums in your hairdresser’s shop but now they are affordable for in the home too! What an easy way to quickly sweep up a mess. The EyeVac PRO Touchless Stationary Vacuum makes cleaning the floor super-efficient. An excellent gift idea for the busy 45-year-old on her birthday. Sons she will love it!

Philips Premium Airfryer XXL with Fat Removal Technology

Philips Premium Airfryer XXL with Fat Removal Technology, Black, HD9630/98

Fat removal technology did someone just say? I can and will use that and be happy! The Philips Premium Airfryer XXL cooks your food to perfection. I love mine and was so happy when my sons gifted it to me on my birthday. Your 45-year-old lady will love this also!

Home-X Hummingbird Swing

Home-X Hummingbird Swing. Metal Frame Hummingbird Swing with Wooden Dowel

I love my hummingbirds and watching them zip and zoom outside the screen porch. I have feeders, misters but did not have a swing until my son gave me one for my birthday. It is so cool and the hummingbirds love it! It took a few days before they decided it was safe but they perch their little bodies on there and somehow they make it swing. The Home-X Hummingbird Swing is a perfect gift for the bird watcher on her 45th birthday.

SATINA High Waisted Buttery Soft Leggings

SATINA #1 High Waisted Buttery Soft Leggings | Regular and Plus Size | 22 Colors (One Size, Lilac Gray)

Who can say leggings and comfort? OMG! Love the SATINA Leggings they are soft and have a great look. A perfect gift for your family member or friend that is having a 45th birthday this year.

DMI Ortho Bed Wedge Elevated Leg Pillow

DMI Bed Wedge Ortho Pillow for Leg Elevation, Sciatica, Pregnancy, Back or Hip Pain, 24 x 20 x 8, Blue

I spend a lot of time at my desk for work so I do not always get the movement my body needs. I have found using the DMI Ortho Bed Wedge has helped with some of those nighttime aches and pains and leg issues. If your 45-year-old mom is having some aches and pains the wedge definitely helps. Gift it to her on her birthday.

I Don’t Need Google, My Son Knows Everything

I Don't Need Google, My Son Knows Everything | Funny Dad Father Fun Joke T-Shirt-(Adult,L) Black

I am sorry but when I saw this, I thought of one of my sons. This is so true. What a funny gift for you guys to give your mom on her 45th birthday. She will have a hoot over the I Don’t Need Google, My Son Knows Everything  shirt!

Sorbus Hanging Rope Hammock

Sorbus Hanging Rope Hammock Chair Swing Seat for Any Indoor or Outdoor Spaces- Max. 265 Lbs -2 Seat Cushions Included

A perfect gift for the 45-year-old that needs to take a break from her busy life. The Sorbus Hanging Chair is super comfy and it fits inside the house, in the porch or under a beautiful tree. I love lounging in mine. Seriously a great place to chill, read a book, and have a glass of wine after a hard day at the job or dealing with the children.

Letscom Bluetooth Headphones

Letscom Bluetooth Headphones, 15Hrs Playtime Wireless 5.0 Earbuds IPX7 Waterproof Sport Running in-Ear Headsets w/Mic Stereo Sound Noise Cancelling for Work Home Office

An amazing set of headphones. The sound quality and comfort make me happy when I am enjoying my tunes as I garden and mow the lawn. I wish I could say when I jog but that would be a lie. But, the Letscom Bluetooth Headphones will make a great birthday or Christmas gift for the lady that loves to jog or do any activity where she likes her hands free!

MELIFLUOS DESIGNED IN SPAIN Women’s Shawl

MELIFLUOS DESIGNED IN SPAIN Women's Shawl Wrap Poncho Ruana Cape Cardigan Sweater Open Front for Fall Winter (PC02-3)

A beautiful addition to any 45-year-old woman closet. This wrap is comfy and warm. It can add some class to your work outfit or some coolness to the perfect shirt and jeans on a cool fall day. The MELIFLUOS Shawl will make the 45-year-old lady smile on her birthday.

THE PEARL SOURCE

THE PEARL SOURCE 9-10mm Genuine White Freshwater Cultured Pearl Infinity Pendant Necklace for Women

Pearls are a beautiful touch to jeans and a t-shirt and this simple, elegant pendant will look beautiful on your wife’s neck on her 45th birthday. Your mom or sister will love it also. The Genuine White Freshwater Cultured Pearl is a great compliment to the lady in your life!

Tim&Tina Silk Sleep Mask

Tim&Tina Silk Sleep Mask Comfortable Blindfold Eye mask Adjustable (Green Flower)

As we get older getting enough sleep and feeling rested is hard. I really enjoy the Sleep Mask to keep out any light or distractions as my husband likes to watch television before bed and the light bothers me. When I use my mask I can sleep like a baby.

CapaBunga Farmer’s Market Tote

CapaBunga MT01 Tote+Able 7-Pocket Farmer's Market Tote, Natural

The perfect reusable tote. Almost indestructible, its multiple pockets are a perfect space for milk, eggs, produce, and so much more, plus a useful outer loop for holding those fresh spices. The handles are beautiful vegan leather, sturdy, and durable. A great tote for a weekly trip to the grocery or market and perfect for a lunch at the beach or in the park. This bag is tough enough to handle it all—and look dang good doing it. Gift your special lady the CapaBunga 7-Pocket Farmer’s Market Tote for her 45th birthday in 2020.

Jaybird Vista True Wireless Bluetooth Earbud

Jaybird Vista True Wireless Bluetooth Sport Waterproof Earbud Premium Headphones - Black

Walking, chores, or whatever your 45-year-old lady is doing she will love these Earbuds. They cost way less than the Airpods and work dang near as well. They are waterproof which I really love at I enjoy the lake and no need to worry about a little splash. As a lover of music, I gifted these to myself. Best gift ever. Get your wonderful woman the Jaybird Wireless Bluetooth Earbuds for her 45th, you will be glad you did and so will she.

SMEG Milk Frother

Smeg 50's Retro Style Aesthetic Milk Frother, MFF01 (Cream)

A good latte goes a long way and the milk frother will offer her the highest quality lattes right at home. The frother’s system warms milk to her preferred temperature and then froths it into a light or a thick foam, depending on her unique tastebuds. An amazing treat your 45-year-old will love every morning. The Smeg Milk Frother will delight your wife, mother, sister or friend on her 45th birthday.

Weighted Idea Adult Weighted Blanket 15 lbs

Weighted Idea Adult Weighted Blanket 15 lbs Queen Size (60''x80'', 100% Natural Cotton, Grey)

If your mom, grandma, wife, or sister is a restless sleeper the Weighted Idea Adult Weighted Blanket is a gift she has no idea how much she will love. these blankets are amazing for anyone whos struggles with the night and getting a good night’s sleep. You cannot go wrong with the amazing feel of this blanket. Perfect for the 45-year-old that works hard and aches when she gets home. Can you say Birthday?

Cooling Bed Sheets

HotelSheetsDirect 100% Bamboo Bed Sheet Set, Cooling Sheets, Moisture Wicking Bed Sheets, Great for Hot Sleepers, Softer Than Silk Bed Sheets (Queen, Dark Gray)

If your 45-year-old lady is a hot sleeper then the Bamboo Cooling Sheets will not only help her nights be more restful but yours also. Cool her down with the sheet that is softer than silk and feels like the air is on.

Amazon.com Gift Card

Amazon.com Gift Card in a Mini Envelope (Black)

Gift giving is not impossible but can feel that way for some of us so here it is, the gift everyone will love! Give your impossible to buy for gal an Amazon.com Gift Card for her big 45th birthday or Christmas this year. Let her pick it out herself.

Dyson Vacuums

Dyson Ball Multi Floor Origin High Performance HEPA Filter Upright Vacuum Fuchsia - Corded

For the super neat freak–she has to have this power house of a vacuum! Just do not suck up your cat with all this power, just her hair. The Dyson Multi Floor Vacuum is a game changer for your 45-year-olds cleaning projects.

La Mer Moisturizing Crème

La Mer by LA MER La Mer Creme de La Mer--/2OZ , white

Every lady in her 40’s is thinking about her skin care and the LaMer has a following that is amazing. Expect your mom to become addicted to this amazing face cream making gift giving easy next year. Give her the La Mer Creme de La Mer for her 45th birthday or Christmas.

NordicTrack Commercial Studio Cycle

Nordictrack Commercial S22i Studio Cycle

For the bike and exercise enthusiast a one and only bike to energize you and your daily ride. the Nordictrack Studio Cycle will keep you traveling right in your living room. Your lady will love this for her 45th.

VIVO 32 inch Standing Desk Converter

VIVO Black Height Adjustable 32 inch Standing Desk Converter, Sit Stand Dual Monitor and Laptop Riser Workstation (DESK-V000K)

When a woman works from home or at a desk all day it gets hard to sit all the time. I purchased the VIVO Standing Desk some time ago and love it. It allows me to stand whenever I need to and still work at my same pace. An excellent birthday gift for the 45-year-old working woman. Super easy to install and use.

Rumours (Vinyl 33 & 1/3 RPM)

Rumours (Vinyl 33 & 1/3 RPM)

I love the music of the ’80s and ’90s and I bet your 45-year-old mom will also. She will reminisce and relax as she listens to her new record of Rumours (Vinyl 33 & 1/3 RPM) from Fleetwood Mac a memory maker for us ladies back in the day.

Victrola Vintage 3-Speed Bluetooth Player

Victrola Vintage 3-Speed Bluetooth Portable Suitcase Record Player with Built-in Speakers | Upgraded Turntable Audio Sound| Includes Extra Stylus | Black

Vinyl still rules the world. The sound and nostalgia from listening to my old records cannot be beat. Give your music lover a reminder of her best years of youth with the Victrola Vintage 3-Speed Bluetooth Player, your 45-year-old will love this birthday gift.

Amazon eGift Card – Woofy Birthday

Amazon eGift Card - Woofy Birthday (Animated) [American Greetings]

Give the gift of an animated eGift card and let her fingers do the shopping! Your 45-year-old lady will have a blast looking through all the fun stuff she can buy! So go grab a Amazon eGift Card – Woofy Birthday and let the cool animation do the birthday wishes for you!

How We Selected Gifts For A special 45 Year Old Woman


Perfecting the gift for the 45-year old can be a tough business but you can do it! We tend to buy gifts we think they will like instead of gifts they will like. As a gift-giver, I always pay attention to gifts I am given because most times the person giving me the gift would love the gift themselves. It tells me a lot about them especially if it is a bad gift. When you’re choosing your mom, wives, or sister’s gift stop thinking about their age. As women, gifts, and age do not go together. Just because I am 45 doesn’t mean I need an old lady gift. I still want something fun and useable.

FAQs About Gift For A 45-Year-Old Woman

What do you get a woman in her 40s?

A woman in her 40’s wants a thoughtful gift that shows you know her. It does not need to be expensive. Take the time to access who she is. Where does she spend her time, what are her hobbies, what appears to be a lot of work for her? Does she need to be sweeping the floor every day or is an iRobot Roomba 675 Robot Vacuum the perfect gift. As we ladies age we like some of those appliances that take some of the day to day drudge away.

What is the best gift for ladies?

The best gift for ladies depends on your relationship with her. If you are her significant other she wants something that shows you took the time to find the perfect gift. It does not have to be about money, she wants something that tells her you love her. Does she love to go camping? A comfy Sorbus Hanging Rope Hammock will give her the perfect place to settle in and read a book on a warm sunny day at the lake.

What to get for the girl who has everything?

No girl has everything she wants. There are many gift ideas she would love if you pay attention to what she says. We, women, are always leaving you verbal hints close to special days. Pssst. Just pay attention.

Gifts for Similar Ages

Wrap Up / Conclusion / Final Word / etc.

Do not wait until the day before her birthday to start shopping and expect to find a magical gift that will bring tears to her eyes, look now, think about what she would love. There are many gifts in the world for your special someone if you enjoy looking– then start right here! Take the time to search and find something she wants. Birthdays only come one time a year and you need to hit the nail on the head every time! You can do this!

Terri Mielitz
M.A. Ed, L.S.W.A.
I have eleven grandchildren ranging from 2 to 25 years of age. I watch 3 of the toddlers everyday. I am an educator and a firm believer in learning, even with playtime.

I put a lot of thought into gift buying. Gifts tell a story and I want the loved ones in my life to have a positive story of belonging.

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